Does the tool circle's lifestyle change?

After 10 years in the tool circle, it has been a little bit too late since the bloody boiling of the tool circle. It has been worn out by the circle and it has more worldly customs in some industries. The system of tool industry circles is relatively monotonous, so few people. See what everyone is doing in normal communication? In the industry exhibition or the annual Spring Festival, everyone's schedule is full, at least half of them are switching between restaurants, KTVs, and mahjong tables, or they are going to go with a bunch of friends and friends. For a group of middle-aged people who are nearly undisciplined, everyone basically spends time in the spirit of entertainment and death.

In the process of communication, what else do you gain in addition to the so-called "brotherhood" that you have acquired? Have you ever rethought the suggestions that have really provided guidance to the business after the meal was blown out, and that once you got acquainted, you reaped a few brothers who will really “hate heart and lungs” to yours?

I believe that very few, apart from satisfying one's own physical or psychological vanity, show very little gain in meaning.

In general, the success of a person has a lot to do with the time other than his “8-hour regular work”. Those who are truly successful are labeled “workaholic”. Superman "Li Ka-shing" will watch an hour or two of books before going to bed every day. Every morning he will get up at 5:58 and these habits will not move. Occasionally it is nothing, it is a terrible kind of perseverance.

Aside from these conventional habits, Xiao Bian wants to ask a question? You can read several books a year. The average annual Chinese readership is 4.7, which is less than 5 minutes per day. However, Koreans read 11 books, 20 French, 40 Japanese, and 64 Jewish.

Looking at our tool industry, we definitely belong to a circle that pulls down the average. An estimated 10 books a year will not exceed 1%.

You don't want to say that reading books and doing business depends on the brain. It was something of the last century. Just as you have the courage to reform, you will make money if you have the courage to do it. Now, with such ample competition, the professional and technical requirements for doing business have greatly improved. You still consider the problems of this century with the mentality of the last century, and you have OUT.

You may be saying that I also study on mobile phones and read some articles. WeChat is only a fast food thing. It can only give you a certain point of excitement, and it can not solve the problems in your knowledge structure. There is no systematic study, no logical superposition. What can you change without learning?

You may also say that knowledge is not so important in this circle of circles. Relationship is the most important thing. It can only be said that you cannot see the situation clearly. “Relationship” is just a bit of lubrication after you lay the foundation. He cannot completely reverse some things. Business itself is utilitarian, and you can't reach people's profit expectations. Now that it's all right, everyone is about the same level. You haven't felt a huge gap. When you have a group of excellent rising stars or a bunch of people who are lost and sprinting, you will find that everything has changed.

Get rid of boring circles, reject non-nutritive socializing, and leave yourself more time to think about what you lack. Do not talk about business is difficult to do, I really can not do; no way is the performance of incompetence, why some people still do the tiger's breeding habit. You only have resources that have advantages, influences, and so on. You don't understand the stories behind people. In circles, there are tens of millions of billions of people. Xiaobian does not believe that they are all day long. Red Dust.

After all, each person’s final choice of lifestyle is the best match for themselves. It is not a choice that has created you. It is your personality, your abilities, your values, your ideals, which have subtly decided on you. Choice, in turn, the path you choose, the circle of choice, the choice of environment, will quietly affect you. This is a dynamic process of constantly adjusting the matching degree with each other.